Why do women break the Friendzone wide open?
A troubling tendency emerges if a statistical analysis of males who have imprisoned themselves in the Friendzone is conducted.
These males are nearly always fixated on one woman, and they treat her as if she were the cure for cancer.
They don’t date other females or even get out with their pals. They just wait by the phone or remain hooked to their mobile phones for the object of their desire to contact them. They abandon everything and hurry over to assist her or be with her whenever she needs assistance.
It’s no wonder that these two have ended up in the Friendzone. They move further and deeper into the Friendzone the more they participate in these actions. They eventually become the homosexual best friend of the person they like. In other words, they labor hard, invest all of their emotional energy, and then walk away with a booby prize at the end of the day.
They all make the same mistake.
They have ceased dating other ladies, which is a typical mistake. They are no longer interested in other females. They’re pinning their hopes on this one female, who they believe will make them feel whole, appreciated, and validated emotionally.
You must buck the trend and seize the bull by the horns.
I’ve shown you how to recognize the Friendzone and how to spot signs that you’re being herded into it. I’ve also given you advice on how to behave yourself so that you may exit the Friendzone or go from the friend ladder to the relationship ladder.
I’ve saved the most powerful weapon for last.
This ultimate weapon is really extremely basic and uncomplicated. If you want to get over someone and stop feeling like you’re her emotional doormat, all you have to do is start dating other females.
This is based on a basic displacement idea.
When you’re so focused on an issue, it consumes all of your emotional energy and physical attention. It consumes you and takes control of your life.
However, if you transfer your attention to anything else, the issue disappears.
Your assumed Ms. Right will vanish once you start dating other females. Indeed, you could recall the moments when you sat on the phone waiting to perform tiny favors for her as a particularly amusing (or uncomfortable) experience.
Your world really opens up, and your whole perspective shifts.
One of the first things you’ll notice is that she’s not very remarkable; that the idealized vision of her you so desperately desired was really a fabrication of your mind.
You can only get to this position by meeting and dating other women.
You don’t even allow yourself to look at other women that way while you’re pining for that one “special” one; you stay loyal and continue to build up that one lady in your mind. This basically blocks you from seeing what is going on around you.
Maybe she’s not even that lovely of a person, and liking her is merely a habit of yours. Stranger things have occurred in the past.
Discuss other ladies with her.
If you start talking to her about other women, don’t expect her to view you in a new light. In fact, she’s most likely already telling you about other males she likes. Keep in mind that she is treating you as if you were her homosexual closest friend.
There are two possibilities.
With her criticism and assistance, she may really help you boost your chances of romantic or sexual success with those other women. That’s a victory.
Second, she may see you as her property, and if she notices that you’re interested in other women, she may feel threatened or jealous and begin to view you as a romantic partner. That’s yet another victory.
We don’t speak about other women with the ladies we’ve been Friendzoned by because we don’t want to jeopardize our chances with them by displaying interest elsewhere.
Ironically, expressing interest in anything else will boost your prospects with her since it gives her a message. It implies that you are romantic relationship material — if not for her, then for a lot of other women. And this is appealing.
It just lets her know that she isn’t your only focus; you have social evidence that other women find you appealing, as I’ll explain below. Everything comes together to make her think about you the way you want her to.
Demonstrate your worth as a sexually appealing guy.
The purpose of discussing other ladies with that specific lady in your life is to demonstrate your worth as a sexually appealing guy. You’re at the very least reminding her of your heterosexuality. You’re not homosexual and have no desire to date other males. You’re not a cuddly, asexual teddy bear, and you’re interested in women.
This is an important lesson because you must recognize that when women are pampered, it is simple for them to emotionally isolate you. To her, you become a type of emotional eunuch.
She starts to view your worth as a sexually desirable guy when you start talking to her about other women, and your thoughts and experiences with them. She could even value you sexually if you play your cards well. It’s all about sowing the seed of doubt in her mind.
Treat her the same way you treat your other pals.
When you date other women and want to show her your worth as a sexually appealing guy, you should treat her the same way you treat your other friends.
Why? Isn’t it going to come off as manipulative, as if you’re attempting to play her like a fool?
Not if you communicate with her in the same way you would with any other friend, by sharing personal tales and experiences.
She won’t notice any gamesmanship if you do it in a natural manner.
She’ll view you in a different light now: as a sexually appealing man. And she’ll experience a pang of remorse or envy that you’ve basically neglected her and relegated her to the status of a regular friend.
People want what they are unable to have.
When you chat about other ladies with her as you do with your other buddies, you establish two things: First, you make it clear to her that there are plenty of other women deserving your time and attention; she isn’t the only game in town.
This might make her think you’ve lost interest in her as more than a friend. Trust me when I say that she relished knowing – subconsciously or not – that you desired her, even if she had you firmly in the Friendzone.
Second, it establishes your sexual attractiveness in the eyes of other ladies.
When you combine these two factors, you will become more appealing to her.
People want what they are unable to have. When you treat her as if she were one of your other pals, you build some emotional distance.
Compare this to the fact that you went out of your way to help her. You’re sending her a message that she can take you for granted if you do that. Why? She has you in the palm of her hand. She has the ability to dispose of you at any moment.
You become more important to her if you are this free-floating person who is independent and has many other possibilities. Because she isn’t so sure she can have you or that you’ll always be there, you become more appealing.
As a consequence, she’ll be more likely to take the next step in your friendship.
As a result, there is a win-win scenario. You may break out from the Friendzone and discover that you can like and seek ladies other than your friends. Even if you don’t have a romantic relationship with the object of your love, you’ve already won since you’ve broken out from the Friendzone and are now able to meet other women.
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