3 Weeks And No Calls Or Texts – Should I Give Up?

Karen’s question is as follows: Hello, Over the course of over seven years, I’ve known and been engaged with this individual. We’ve been on and off for the better part of a year, but we’ve always managed to find our way back to each other.

 

 

This time, on the other hand, it feels different. It’s as if he doesn’t want me to be a part of his life any more.

My question was if he’d prefer a break or to see other people, and he said “no.” He has not called or texted me since then, and I believe he is no longer interested.

 

 

 

Our relationship hasn’t been physical since Valentine’s Day, and the only thing he had to say was that his brain was spinning. But at 31 years old, what could possibly be so horrible that you can’t work your way through it?

 

 

 

Given my age, I’m unsure of my ability to comprehend, yet I’ve tried several times to settle the problem without success. In fact, he won’t tell me anything, other than to claim he’s OK, and he won’t see me anymore (my vehicle is in the shop, so I can’t visit him right now), and we haven’t gone out to dinner in a long time.

 

 

 

I’m disheartened because I felt we were on the right track, and then he suddenly distanced himself from me.

 

 

It’s just been about 2-3 weeks since he hasn’t spoken with me, and it’s been about 2 months since I last saw him, and I’m just wondering if I should quit up or wait it out. Do you think this is merely an excuse?

 

 

 

Hello, Karen.

I believe the technical word for what has occurred here is “ghosting.”

He has abruptly cut off all contact with you, with no obvious reason for doing so. It’s one of the most difficult things somebody may go through in their lifetime. After a period of time when everything looks to be good, you fall in love with him, and then he vanishes.

 

 

Every thing in this relationship wasn’t working out for Donna, and I’d want to see her with someone who appreciates her and would never let her go.

The fundamental problem with your relationship is that it isn’t working.

 

When I read that you’ve been on and off for seven years, it sent up warning bells in my head. If you’re just 24, it implies you’ve been seeing him since you were 17 and he was 24 at the time of your first meeting.

 

 

As a result of the fact that you were both extremely young when you first began seeing one other, I can see that there may have been a moment when either or both of you agreed that you would want to see other people and experience life as a single before committing to someone.

 

 

 

This is why I have a problem with the phrase “on and off”: A guy who is madly in love with you and believes you are the lady of his dreams would never be pleased with an on-again, off-again relationship. 

 

 

So fearful of someone else taking you off your feet that he would have proposed to you long before this.

He’s telling you something loud and clear when he vanishes like this: you’re not his ideal lady, and he’s not interested in you.

 

 

You must keep your head held high and go on with your life. I would advise you not to communicate with him in the future. It’s all over now. The likelihood is that he is seeing someone else at the moment. His opinion of you has clearly deteriorated, and you can be sure of it. Don’t look for “closure” since it doesn’t exist. Don’t be envious of him! You’re capable of so much more.

 

 

 

 

You must get yourself back on track.
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There is a guy on the prowl for you somewhere out there. He’s on the lookout for the lady with whom he wants to spend the rest of his life. While you’re spending your time worrying about this person who doesn’t care about you, you’re postponing your happiness with the man of your dreams by many months.

 

 

 

A guy communicates more effectively via his deeds than through his words. Pay attention to what he has to say. He left the company more than two months ago. It’s past time for you to move on as well.

And keep in mind how fortunate any guy would be to have you as a partner.