PERFECT MASTURBATION FOR BEGINNERS
Masturbation has always been grossly underappreciated in the realm of sexual behavior.
Because this is something you can do alone, it seems to take away credit from you and to bring no joy, even if someone else performs it for you. However, well-executed masturbation may be as satisfying as or even more so than oral sex when done properly.
Masturbation does not have to be the end goal of sexual activity, but it may serve as a precursor to other forms of sexual action. Furthermore, it may be used to alternate during oral sex, allowing for a little interval of respite.
Before anything else, we must keep a number of considerations in mind in order to have a perfect masturbation experience and avoid being cut short. First and foremost, we must ensure that our hands are soft and that our fingernails are well clipped; callused hands or broken fingernails might result in unsightly scrapes and scratches.
Furthermore, it is recommended to apply a water-based lubricant or body oil, if at all feasible; this will allow the hand to glide more smoothly and our guy will have the most pleasure. Use a different scented oil each time and observe the responses our partner has to see whether this is an intriguing experiment.
Finally, we must make certain that we have all of the materials that we will need (lubricant, condoms, and so on) on board; it would be really inconvenient to have to get up and leave in the midst of masturbating if we did not.
When it comes to sexually transmitted infections, it’s quite unlikely that they’d be spread by masturbation, particularly since the semen would need to be able to pass through an open and bleeding sore on the hand in order for it to be able to transmit the illness. However, if we suspect that our partner may be infected with HIV or another Sexually Transmitted Disease and wish to be extra cautious, we may always wear gloves to protect ourselves.
This approach would present our guy with a fresh and unusual experience (we might even utilize it as part of a scenario in which he was playing the role of a police officer or a nurse, for example).
It is also crucial for successful masturbation that both partners be comfortable; we will be the ones who will need to choose our most comfortable posture. There are a plethora of options to pick from. We may stand up and face each other so that he can see us masturbating as he is watching him watch us.
To make things a bit more interesting, we’d both be standing up with our backs to the guy; this way, we’d be able to masturbate him while also rubbing our bodies against his back. On the other hand, we may go down on our knees in front of him when our guy is seated on a chair, a sofa, or even a bed.
Our spouse might also be standing up in this posture instead of sitting down in another variation of this position. Other options include both of us sitting down side by side; this is an excellent option if we want to kiss as we masturbate. Furthermore, you may simply accomplish it from any location.
You might even make a little adjustment while in this posture as well. Instead of being sitting, we might both be laying down on the floor. This way, both of us could continue kissing and stimulating each other in a mutually beneficial manner.
A more sensuous posture would be for the guy to lie down with us to sit on top of his legs, facing him, which would be more sensual. Finally, the “doggy” style would be the most difficult stance to execute well. When a guy places himself in this position, we should either position ourselves underneath him or urge him to open his legs so that we may masturbate him from behind. We are free to experiment with whatever stance that we can conceive of and anything we find appealing.
However, before we begin with the act of masturbation itself, we must “prepare” our guy.
We may make use of any of the strategies and suggestions that have been provided throughout this guidebook, including: If you want to thrill him, dress sensually and conduct an elaborate strip-tease or body massage, or kiss various erogenous zones, or anything else comes to mind that you believe may excite him.
The thigh region or the abdomen are wonderful places to start massaging first. Because they’re so close to the genitals, it’s likely to cause a significant erection. Furthermore, our hair contacting these places would greatly arouse him, therefore we must take advantage of this by kissing his thighs and abdomen as well as the rest of his body.
It seems to be simple to masturbate a guy; “it’s only a matter of moving the hand from up to down.” However, if it is not done correctly, it may provide him with no pleasure at all or possibly do him physical harm. Furthermore, with each movement of the hand on his penis, each guy experiences pleasure in a totally distinct manner from the next. Something that is satisfying for some people is terrible for others, and vice versa.
Each guy has his own style of holding and moving his penis, as well as his own way of using his hand under pressure and at high speeds, etc. There are two approaches that may assist us in determining the most effective manner to induce ecstasy in him using this strategy. One of them is to request that he masturbate right in front of us so that we can see how he enjoys himself while doing so.
Secondly, after we have attentively studied how he does things, it is as easy to follow along as if he were directing us. We place our hand on his penis, and he places his hand on ours, demonstrating to us how to go down and then up, where to apply pressure, and which sides of the body he prefers the motions to be made on. If you’re with someone special, it may even be an intimate and meaningful time.
To begin with, foreplay before to masturbation is what builds the most anticipation and, ultimately, the most pleasurable experience conceivable. We’ll start with the neck, then the chest, then the legs, then the thighs, and so on. We’ve previously discussed the arms and legs. In order for us to touch the region he’s after, we must persuade him that this is unlikely to happen.
We may touch it every now and again, but just for a small period of time; this would thrill him tremendously and he will go insane since we thoroughly touched his genitals. To proceed, we must first apply some lubrication to our hands and then apply a little amount to his penis. We’ll start by stimulating it with nothing more than our fingers.
Afterwards, we place our thumb on the frenulum (or frenum), and the index and heart fingers on the rear half of the penis, as shown. With all of them, we’ll now do circular motions in a circle. After that, we wrap our palm around the penis and begin moving it from the bottom up, from the base to the glans, as seen in the picture. When we have finished with one hand, we switch to the other and repeat the process with the other hand. We must be gentle with him, because if we are not, we may injure him.
Now, with one hand, we grip the base of the penis, and with the other, we stimulate his glans by massaging it with the palm of our hand, as seen below. Due to the fact that the glans is so sensitive, we must remember to apply lubricant to our hands. If we do not, our hands will become overly rough, resulting in a painful experience. We may then continue with our hand wrapped around the penis and make lengthy motions from the base of the penis all the way to the tip of the penis to complete the movement.
We’ll be rotating the hand at the same time as we move up and down the stairs. Later on, we may perform it with both hands and rotate each hand in a different direction from the other. Another variation on this final approach is to create a ring between our index finger and thumb, and then execute the same motions as previously, rather than using the whole hand. It will feel different since you are not utilizing the whole palm of your hand.
Alternatively, we can alternate masturbating with massages on the scrotum or the perineum, and even press on the scrotum, causing separation between the scrotum and its penis (while taking care not to hurt it), and continue moving the hand over it in different ways, changing them gradually without being abrupt. This will boost the level of stimulation in our guy, resulting in his experiencing an orgasm much sooner.
The process may also be done the other way around: while working on his penis with one hand more evenly, we can excite his scrotum with the other hand by moving it in various ways and applying varied pressures to it. We might also take his testicles in our palm and gently massage them; or we can push lightly on his perineum, stimulating the prostate, which is known as the “male G-spot.”
One thing we should never forget is how crucial it is to maintain eye contact with one another. Looking at him sensuously as we’re masturbating him will be an incredible and priceless source of pleasure for him, and it will be our joy as well.
If we don’t have any lubricants on hand, we should exercise extreme caution while masturbating: we should avoid moving our hand from the glans to the base, particularly if our partner is unusually “well-equipped.” Because if we didn’t apply any lubricant, we’d be stretching the skin too much and end up injuring the frenulum in the process. We should also refrain from doing the movements that were described previously since it would be much more difficult to slide our hands about and cause discomfort to our companion.
Considering the possibility that our partner has not been circumcised, we should confine ourselves to making brief up and down motions from the glans to the center of his trunk. If, on the other hand, he has been circumcised, we will make motions from the center of the penis to just before reaching the glans area of the penis.
Because he does not have a foreskin or any other protective skin, stroking his glans without lubrication may be quite unpleasant. As a result –and this is applicable to all men–, while our guy is secreting preseminal fluids, and with the assistance of a little saliva, we may begin to stimulate the glans with the palm of our hand.
Our partner will determine the amount of pressure we use in each action. Perhaps he is sensitive and wants that we do it carefully, or perhaps he like to experience more intensity and requests that we do it more vigorously.
It is important not to vary our rhythm or, more importantly, the position of our hand when our partner is ready to complete his or her task. It is possible that stopping activity for even a few moment would decrease his enthusiasm.
Keep stimulating him until he has completed entirely (some men want to shift the movement of the hand from quick to progressively slower, with less pressure on the base and more pressure when closer to the glans, as though they are assisting him in removing all of the fluid from his system). Unless we intervene, he will continue to ejaculate, but he will not have the same pleasure as before.
Despite all of this, there are some guys who want to maintain control over their own orgasm and opt to end the experience themselves. In these situations, we might assist him by rubbing his testicles or perineum, or by gently caressing his thighs. By watching him pleasure himself, we may draw his attention to the fact that we are eager.
That would assist him in reaching his climax (for a more in-depth understanding of a spectacular masturbation and how to get the greatest results possible, the particular book on masturbation from the same series is advised).
Communication is critical in any method, and this is true for scuba diving as well. We need to know whether he approves of what we’re doing or if he would prefer that we do things a different way.
In addition, knowing what things we are not prepared to accomplish is beneficial since he will not ask us to perform them if we are not aware of them.
