Breakup sex is that bittersweet, passionate final ride you take with a person with whom you’ve just broken up with or are going to break up with someone you’ve just split up with.
This trip, in my view, is much superior than the one known as “make-up sex,” in which individuals celebrate the victory of their love after a significant setback or failure. The forbidden fruit of “goodbye” sex is heightened by the sensation of that last touch, the final sexual pleasure before the end of one’s life. Moreover, as Ted Spiker pointed out, “It’s like the day before a diet.” “I’ll get started tomorrow, but today I’m going to indulge in one final order of chicken wings.”
Despite the fact that it is regarded a slippery slope, it is important to remember that many painful reasons contributed to the split and that the emotions of having separated are still fresh. The act of engaging in sex with a previous partner without any ties connected, on the other hand, provides it the wild edge that everyone wants while they’re beneath the covers.
Breakup sex is the final hurrah before you go on your new life.
Almost everyone has a list of complaints from past relationships that did not work out for them. Researchers in the field of sexual therapy have discovered that breakup sex is an excellent method to celebrate everything positive about a relationship and to come to terms with the end of a relationship before moving on to someone else.
Breakup sex is all about ‘getting beneath them in order to get over them,’ as the saying goes.
As raw as that feeling may seem, it is really a wonderful method of releasing all of the bottled up emotions in the form of reciprocal “exercise.”
Breakup sex will put an end to all of your drunken messages to your ex, late-night ‘I miss you’ phone calls, and feeling horny and constantly thinking about them, among other things. This kind of sex, which has a specific purpose in mind, aids in the closure of all parties involved by giving a calm end to the turbulence. The psychological significance of this is that it “confirms” that this period of each other’s life has come to an end and that it is now time to move on.
This ‘cheating on your diet’ kind of sex is really a wonderful stress-reliever since it makes you feel good about yourself.
Despite the ups and downs of a relationship, it is difficult to let go of a romance you once loved. The tension that has resulted from the separation is genuine. In psychology, there’s a concept known as ‘arousal transfer’ that you may learn about if you look around. Simply stated, it is the conscious change in your mental state from being furious to being very aroused as a result of engaging in sexual activity during a moment of conflict. As is well known, during sex, a hormone known as Oxytocin is produced, which works as a natural painkiller, ensuring that you will immediately notice a reduction in your tension and anxiety levels.
The anticipation is palpable, as is the anticipation for the release.
Knowing that you don’t have to worry for this one person anymore, as well as the fact that your relationship with them is at an end, can allow you to let go more easily. Breakup sex will provide you with some crazy, wild pleasure since it will be free of inhibitions and restrictions. You will not have to worry about the after-effects. Breakup sex is generally more thrilling than sex in a relationship, or even make-up sex, due to the complete absence of constraints.
This will assist you in putting the unpleasant memories behind you.
First and foremost, no one will be addressing negative emotions and sensations during sex, thus sparing you from the ensuing turmoil. Two, according to a research conducted by the University of Cambridge, having good recollections of an event may lead to a decreased susceptibility to depression in the future. Combating negative memories by putting them to rest with that last moment of reconciliation before traveling your separate ways may, in turn, enable you to have more good recollections of your relationship in general. A mind-blowing orgasm is likely to be the last thing you remember about that relationship, making it a win-win situation.
Not every breakup can withstand one final act of sexual pleasure, but those who are capable of doing so should give it a go at least once!
And, despite the fact that many people have raised concerns about breakup sex, I can only think of one significant worry (or benefit) of this kind of sex: if it is really wonderful, it may cause the couple to reconsider their decision to end their relationship.
