HOW TO PHYSICALLY PLAY WITH A MAN’S MIND
In the same way that poetry is essential to understanding oneself, eroticism is one of the fundamental building blocks of self-knowledge.
In the case of Anas Nin, the term “anas Nin” refers to a person who is not a native speaker of English.
There is something about the majority of women’s physical appearance that they don’t really enjoy. Depending on their body type, it might be considered a fault or merely a complicated of a feature. The uneasiness that many women feel as a result of their “imperfections” manifests itself in their relationships with others, and more especially, with men of the opposite sex.
Accepting our shortcomings and accepting them as a part of ourselves will help to ensure that they do not turn against us and that they do not prohibit us from having satisfying personal or sexual relationships in the future. There are methods for reversing these complexities and use them to our advantage if we want.
Despite the fact that we don’t really enjoy certain of their qualities, each individual has their own special characteristics. That shouldn’t keep us from being comfortable in our own skin, though. We may take these unique characteristics that characterize us and use them to entice our guy, or even to develop fantasies and games that assist us in reaching a state of pleasure.
In the case of our buttocks, we may not be fond of them, but we may have long legs or arms –both of which are attractive to men–, so why not emphasize those features more and ignore the ones we dislike? Always some physical characteristic that we may stress and stylize to divert attention away from what we don’t really like about ourselves.
Having excess kilos (or pounds) is one of the major concerns that most women face. For many women, diets and exercise sessions are a way of life in order to get the body they want. Those additional kilos/pounds, however, aren’t a problem for males, as many ladies are unaware of.
As a matter of fact, according to a recent study, the vast majority of males (three out of four) preferred women of average weight or somewhat chubby in comparison to women who were very slim. A large percentage of males were interested in women who were in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, according to the findings of the same study, which was conducted in the same city.
Another concern women have is that they will become unattractive beyond a certain age, which is absurd considering that they are quite beautiful at that age to many men.
Furthermore, it is already well known that experience counts for something, and the sexual expertise that older women possess is something that the younger women do not possess in the same measure.
As a result of all of this, it is aimed to help these women who are dissatisfied with their bodies realize that what they consider a problem for them might be an asset for a guy. It is always our responsibility to change a negative situation into a good one. Women who are self-conscious about the size of their breasts, for example, may suffer from a breast-sizing complex.
However, why not utilize this function to construct a sexual dream of your choice? Our breasts are still developing, so we may pretend to be young teens with unformed breasts. When it comes to sex, many guys would like to do it with a virgin female, and we can fill that role with our feature.
The same may be said for any other body complication that we may have, just as we can do something about our tiny breast size. Having the tools and creativity to know how to play with our bodies is critical to achieving success. Also important is having confidence in ourselves and believing in ourselves, since this is what attracts men.
DIFFERENT ROLLS ARE INVOLVED
“There is an unseen actor who is constantly present and active in every sensual encounter: the imagination”.
Victor Octavio Paz is an Argentine poet and novelist who was born in the city of Buenos Aires.
The majority of male sexual fantasies may be satisfied by particular role-playing games, and you can gratify many of these dreams. Among other things, we may claim to be a prostitute or a complete stranger that you have just met, or we can disguise ourselves as someone famous, or we can pretend to be a helpless virgin girl.
The aforementioned points have previously been made in earlier sections, but it is important to emphasize that the roll games should not just be used to fulfill other desires, but that they may and should be utilized as a source of sexual attraction in and of itself.
That is, you are not need to act on a dream in order to reach out to these people.
Changing the dynamics of a routine night may transform it into the most passionate one, and one of the things we can do to make our bed games more interesting is to switch up the roles we play.
Identities are often associated with one another, such as police officer and burglar, nurse and patient, boss and employee, and so on. Members take on different roles, with one member being more dominating than the other.
Depending on who wants to be the one in command throughout the game, each player will take a different role. Others, on the other hand, switch roles often, with some couples having the same dominating partner for years on end.
Some have previously been addressed, but examples of staging that may be utilized will be provided in the next section. 1. A police officer arrests an offender and forces her to have sexual relations with him; a patient who goes to a clinic and the doctor/nurse begins to examine her and, little by little, they become excited to the point where they decide to take her to the action right there and then; a boss who calls one of his employees in to apologize for a job done incorrectly, and she, with the intention of apologizing, is willing to do anything; a professor who is giving a review to his
Despite the fact that men and women have been allocated to different roles, this might be easily rectified.
If the police officer is a woman and the perpetrator is a male, for example, the situation would be reversed. This continues with each of the scenarios that have been proposed. Furthermore, it would be intriguing to not constantly take on the same role, since shifting the viewpoint would increase the level of excitement generated by the game.
It is also possible to change how the characters interact with one another. For example, the criminal may freely engage in sexual intercourse with the police as a result of the heat of the moment; in return, the officer may compel her to engage in sexual relations with him on a later date. This should be discussed in detail prior to beginning the game, though.
The ability to recognize when to quit is very important. It might also not be a terrible idea to have a password in case any of the two players feels uncomfortable throughout the game.
It is possible to construct an infinite number of circumstances. The possibilities are endless as long as we can conceive of anything that is interesting to us.
The prospect of having sexual encounters with fictional figures, such as Princess Leia, may elicit strong emotions in certain males. In this space, everyone is free to let their imaginations run wild.
METHODS FOR GETTING OUT OF THE ROUTINE
“When things go well, sex is incredibly memorable and pleasurable, regardless of how you look at it. And those who are adept at handling the sexual parts of a relationship have a significant advantage in terms of stimulating romantic love.”
Helen Fischer is a woman who lives in the United States.
Some games have previously been discussed in other sections; nonetheless, we will attempt to include as many different ones as possible here in order to provide as much diversity as possible for our readers.
THE STOPWATCHER
This game is designed to allow us to enjoy the foreplay for as long as we desire. To use this method, you must first set a stopwatch (or timer) to go off at a certain time, such as in 20 minutes; and then you must wait until the alarm goes off before attempting to penetrate the system. Our enthusiasm will rise as we await the outcome of the trial.
STRIP POKER
If we like playing table and card games, we may make use of them for sexual pleasure. We can, for example, engage in strip poker. Every time a player loses a game, they are required to remove an item of clothes from their person. As we shed layers of clothes, we’ll notice that we’re becoming stronger, and our enthusiasm will steadily increase.
DICE
We can also play a game using dice if we want to. However, the most common variety is one in which two dice are used: one with bodily parts on it and another with actions to be performed. We’ll see what happens if we roll the dice and see what happens.
Another option is to use a single die with different spots on it. This is the best alternative if we want to experiment with different positions. We won’t know what position we’re going to test out until we roll the dice and see what happens.
CYBERSEX
For individuals who are separated, turning to cybersex might be a terrific option. We might start by sending them provocative remarks; we can even include a sensual photo to make them feel more at ease.
We may tell him what we’d do if he were right there with us, or what we’d want him to do to us if he were right there with us.
The level of sexual tension will gradually increase. And, if we determine that we need further stimulation, we may conclude by making a video call.
It will be quite satisfying to practice masterbating in front of the camera while also observing how our partner performs.
Without intending to divert attention away from the primary goal of this book, it may be worthwhile to underline the necessity of not combining enjoyment with a lack of common sense while reading this book. Even while it is perfectly OK for us to transmit provocative images or films in our personal capacity, we should keep in mind that it is best if we do not allow our faces or personal information to be seen in them. The risk of their utilizing it against us is eliminated, whether it is our existing partner or other parties that might have access to such information.
SEXUALLY RESTRICTIVE
Slow Sex is a game that is comparable to “Stopwatch / Timer” in terms of gameplay. At the very least, the goal is the same: to make the feelings that are experienced during foreplay last as long as possible. There is no time constraint in this scenario, but the regulations are considerably more pompous than in the last one. Ejaculating is strictly prohibited, and anybody who does so will be disqualified.
You will be able to prolong the pleasure and excitement until one of the two can’t take it any longer and succumbs to bliss in this manner.
IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE MUSIC’S RHYTHM
Sensual music is often used to heighten the intensity of passionate evenings. But, what if we played more upbeat music instead of slow, repetitive music to keep things moving? We may have a good time attempting to keep up with the tempo of the music while having sexual contact with each other. For people who are having difficulty developing a proper penetration rhythm, this approach may be really beneficial.
MIRRORS
We can also experiment with some very basic items, such as mirrors. We may place numerous of them all about our room so that they reflect the bed from all angles and views. All for the sake of seeing ourselves reflected in a mirror, this game will foster sexiness and urge us to experiment with other postures.
THE VEGETABLE TRAY
Who doesn’t recall the picture of the Romans eating grapes while lying in their beds, enjoying themselves? As it happens, it is an excellent moment to recall such an incident. We can put together a fruit tray and a nice bottle of wine, and then we can go to bed. We’ll take turns feeding the other, one at a time. A little amount of wine may be sprinkled over his body and then licked away. We may also apply a little amount of fruit on his body and then eat it in small portions over time. With each passing second as we move closer to his genitals, he’ll get further enthused.
THESE ARE THE 13 MYTHS AND FACTS
“Truth will always serve as the foundation of liberty.”
Jess Salas Salas’s full name is Jess Salas Salas.
A penis that is little while it is limp will likewise be small when it is erect,
FALSE.
This is not always the case. There are two varieties of penises: those that are little while relaxed, but expand significantly when erect, and those that are already rather large when relaxed, and only expand a little more when aroused. The first form of penis is found in the majority of men, so don’t leap to conclusions before getting down to business.
2.- The prostate contains the G-spot, which is characteristically male.
TRUE
In fact, some people refer to it as the “P” spot, which comes from the word prostate. More information regarding this region, as well as how to activate it, will be discussed in more detail in a later chapter.
3.- Younger ladies are more exciting. TRUE
Despite the fact that the word “True” was rejected, it would be more accurate to say that it is just half the truth. Yes, it is true that males have a natural inclination to gravitate toward women who are younger than themselves. However, this does not rule out the possibility of a mature woman seeming appealing to men of the same age as her, or even younger guys. A mature lady has the knowledge and experience that young females do not have.
The more experience they have, the more information they have about how to excite a guy, what to do to him, when to do it, and how to do it. It’s not uncommon for a young guy to go completely insane about a lady who is many years older than he is.
4.- Using a condom during sexual encounters reduces the amount of pleasure that men experience.
FALSE.
There is a widespread misconception that wearing condoms during sexual encounters diminishes sensitivity, resulting in less pleasure being experienced. In contrast, according to the findings of a study conducted by Devon Hensel of the Indiana University (USA), the elements that predicted better sexual pleasure were getting oral sex and manual stimulation of the genitals. In contrast, individuals who reported lower levels of sexual pleasure did so because they were uncomfortable with their partner during the act or because they had erection difficulties.
Aspect of condom use that should not be overlooked is the right fit of the condom, since an improper fit or improper application of the condom may cause discomfort and, as a result, interfere with the performance of sexual activity. Also, while putting on the condom, we must make an effort not to interfere too much with the sexual relationship itself. In order to do this, we might be the ones who put the condom on him while continuing to stimulate his penis.
Even yet, there may be some guys who prefer to do it without using a condom because they like the feeling of skin on skin contact over using a condom. However, this is related more to psychological factors than to physical factors; this does not imply that they would have less pleasure as a result of using a condom.
While it is true that the sensitivity differs at the beginning of penetration, by the halfway point of the act, the experience tends to be precisely the same as before.
5.- In all interactions, even sexual ones, the male assumes the position of the dominating one. FALSE
It is true that, in the past, men had “power” as a result of society and the education they had acquired. However, since a few years, women have gained power and are now on an equal footing with males in many respects.
There is still much work to be done in order to achieve total equality, but on the issue that we are discussing, we can state that the dominating role in sexual encounters varies depending on the couple and the environment in which they find themselves. It is possible that today the male is in the driving seat of a relationship and tomorrow the woman is in charge of affairs.
This also benefits the pair since it invigorates their relationship and prevents it from becoming stale and monotonous over time. Furthermore, when women take the initiative every now and again, males get enthused as well.
6.- The importance of size cannot be overstated. TRUE.
Once again, we’re talking about half-truths. Given that the female G-point is located 3 to 5 cm from the entrance of the vaginal opening, any penis of this size or larger might stimulate this location. The thickness, on the other hand, should be taken into consideration.
It is essential to have enough thickness for the lady to “notice” that she is being entered, and his penis should be stimulating to the vaginal region as well. A penis that is either too thin or, more importantly, too short would have more problems stimulating this region.
However, if this were our man’s situation, there are always alternative options that are just as satisfying, or we may utilize sexual complements that could be of assistance. In contrast, an excessive size, as well as in thickness and length, may also result in issues. For example: Penises that are either too thick or too lengthy create discomfort when they are penetrated.
When it comes to penises that are too thick, this may be remedied by engaging in more foreplay games in the vaginal region, which will allow the penis to dilate more effectively, as well as using more lubrication.
When it comes to penises that are too long, there are a variety of postures that prevent the man from completely penetrating the woman, such as the “teaspoon” posture, where the man lies on his side against the woman’s buttocks, which prevents the penis from going any further and prevents the man from inserting it all the way into her cervix.
Another option would be for us to go on top of the guy; in this case, we would be the ones who control the pace and determine how far his penis would extend itself. We may conclude from all of this that the size of a man’s penis is crucial, not just for deficiency, but also for excess. It is thus appropriate to invoke the old adage “quality above quantity.”
7.- After having sexual encounters, men tend to fall asleep. TRUE.
It is extremely usual for a guy to fall asleep after having sexual encounters with another person.
This may be quite aggravating for some women, who may even come to see it as a sign of a lack of respect on their part.
There is, however, a biological explanation for this that may be understood better. In order for a man to be successful in ejaculation, his brain gets a mix of chemicals, including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide, and the hormone prolactin, among others.
The latter hormone, prolactin, is important in the amount of time it takes for a person to recuperate enough to participate in sexual activity again (refractory period). Furthermore, this hormone is linked to sleep in such a manner that the greater the amount of this chemical present, the faster the males would fall asleep.
8.- Men who have had their genitals circumcised report more enjoyment during sexual encounters.
FALSE.
This statement has been deemed untrue because some components must be stressed in order for the statement to be comprehended in its whole. It is believed that men who have not been circumcised suffer from hypersensitivity in the glans because it is covered most of the time by the foreskin, which prevents contact with the external and causes moisture to accumulate. Men who have been circumcised, on the other hand, frequently brush against their underwear, allowing the extra moisture to escape as a result.
As a result of all of this, circumcised men have less hypersensitivity in the glans, allowing them to enjoy stimulation in a more enjoyable manner. In general, males who choose to have their genitals circumcised as adults see the procedure as a good alteration; nevertheless, this does not imply that they experience more pleasure; rather, it just indicates that the procedure is different. In spite of this, there are circumcised men who profess to having very little sensation in the glans and who like the experience less than their non-circumcised counterparts.
Whatever the case, both sorts of men appreciate the stimulation in the glans; the only difference is that the arousal is of a different nature for each.
9.- The greater the duration of the sexual encounter, the better. FALSE.
According to the results of a poll conducted among several sexual therapists, the optimal length of a sexual encounter should be between 7 and 13 minutes. 1 and 2 are too short; 3 and 7 are appropriate; and more than 13 is excessive.
As opposed to being concerned with the length of time we spend in intercourse, we should be more concerned with the duration of foreplay, which includes kissing, hugging, games, oral and manual stimulation; this is because a higher level of performance in foreplay is associated with greater satisfaction in the romantic relationship.
