Despite the fact that you’ve been hanging out with a bunch of new pals, one specific lady has grabbed your attention. You laugh at the same jokes, listen to the same music, and see movies that are similar to one other.
The two of you seem to be attracted to each other while you’re among your pals, but there’s one thing that you’re concerned about. Your curiosity has piqued your interest, and you’d want to ask her out on a date. In the event that she is engaged with someone, you don’t want to get in the way of their connection or cause awkwardness within the group, but you want to get more acquainted with her and perhaps pursue a romantic relationship with her.
Do this without jeopardizing your new relationship or making yourself seem foolish. Maintain your composure, project confidence, and inquire as to whether she has a partner.
Direct the discussion to another dating pair that you and your partner are both familiar with. They brag about how well they get along, how fortunate they are to have one other, and how nicely he treats her, among other things. Then say something along the lines of, “I’m sure your guy treats you like a queen.” As a result, she has the option of telling you that she does not have a boyfriend or telling you that she does.
In any case, you haven’t changed anything about your relationship and you have discovered whether or not she is connected with another man.
Inquire as to if she has a boyfriend. If she says “no,” then ask her out on a date. Assuming she responds affirmatively, remind her that he is a fortunate man and that you would be a fool not to have asked.
Tell one of your friends to ask one of the girl’s friends whether she has a boyfriend, and the other buddy should do the same. Her buddy isn’t going to lie, and she may share her thoughts on the relationship or the potential of a connection with you.
Invite her out on a date with you. If she has a boyfriend, she will most likely inform you of this and reject your invitation.
1. Examine the circumstances
If you’re anything like me, the first thing you look for is a vacancy on her ring finger. Nothing? Check!
Are there any youngsters in the area? This generally indicates that their father is close by. We’re good, check!
Is she messing with her hair while smiling and giggling into her phone? If that’s the case, there’s a good probability it’s a man on the other end of the line. This isn’t going to work out very well.
If she isn’t, make your approach and start up a discussion, which will ideally lead to a wonderful relationship.
Even if things seem to be going well, you’ll never know her true condition until you do one thing:
2. Make an inquiry of her.
Isn’t that the case? Even if there is someone else, your macho ego tells you that you can win her over, that you are the superior guy. The problem is, understanding what’s going on in her relationship may actually assist your position.
How can you be certain? I’ve come up with a few concepts.
Before I go any farther, let me say this: Should the fact that she has a boyfriend deter you from trying? What if she agrees to go out anyhow, and you find out she is unhappy with her position, is still on the field, or prefers you?
It’s all about finding the perfect one for you, and we often do so while dating someone else. Even if you find out she’s already involved, you’ll get her respect and attraction if you attempt. Women despise weak men and admire those who persevere in the face of adversity. They are fond of hunters.
OK, but you still want to know. What is the best way to find out without putting egg on your face? Simple: Ask, but be ready to answer.
Say anything like this during a conversation:
What does your partner have to say about it?
Is your lover among us?
I hope I’m not intruding on your boyfriend’s territory.
Is it possible that I’d get you in trouble if I requested to see you again?
Are you single? I’d love to learn more about you. Maybe over lunch?
Believe me, most women like the additional attention, even if they’re in love with someone else, and attempting this will only boost your self-esteem.
Even if you find out she’s already taken, it’s a wonderful opportunity to learn how to deal with rejection and react positively, and having this mindset will only benefit you in the future.
But what if you just want to know without having to ask? There are a few of more subtle methods:
3. Mutual acquaintances
It’s simple to question one of your mutual friends about the lady you’re interested in. They may also discuss her partner at times. Just don’t make it apparent. People like a good rumor.
4. Use of social media
This isn’t an excuse to follow or keep tabs on someone all the time. People get into problems for doing this, but it’s OK if you want to look at her Facebook relationship status or go through her Twitter tweets.
If she’s in a relationship, she’ll have photos of how and with whom she spends her time — unless she’s really private and doesn’t feel the need to share.
5. Informal Conversation
She’ll probably bring up her partner (if she has one) or her interest in someone else while talking about mundane subjects. This is also a great method to see how much you like her. It’s possible that you’ll find that your passions are vastly different.
6. Attitude
Her behavior may sometimes reveal if she has a partner or is really interested in someone else.
Is she frequently texting and smiling on the phone? Is she constantly rushing off to some kind of social gathering? Is she oblivious to the gazes of other men? None of these is a foolproof method of finding out, although certain females can send out strong signals.
