5 ways Become the Man Women Want to Be With

2. Attraction’s Development

Attraction isn’t something you can choose.
Read that line again, just in case you missed it the first time.
Attraction isn’t something you can choose.
A gleaming red Ferrari will not entice her to you. (Hint: Our genetics haven’t altered all that much since the first Ferrari came off the production line, yet your forefathers still got laid.) A high-paying career will not entice her to you.
Her attraction to you will not be based on your six-pack abs.
Telling her (or boasting about) all the reasons she should be attracted to you isn’t going to help her fall in love with you.
Why?

 

 

 

Because attraction isn’t something you can choose.
If it were the case, decent men would be fending off approaches and bad lads would be out of work.
No. Attraction, on the other hand, is instinctual. Women may claim (or perhaps believe) that they desire a wonderful guy who treats them like a princess, but the fact is that they are not attracted to such a man. She can’t help but feel the tingles as that intimidating bad lad swaggers by.

 

So, how did it all begin?
What are the origins of female arousal?
Let’s go back in time and find out…

 

 

 

 

ATTRACTION OF A CAVEWOMAN

Because these are physical qualities that indicate fertility, we guys are drawn to young girls with titillating tits, a large butt, long yummy legs, and all that wonderful stuff. Cavemen who pursued ill elderly women didn’t have a lot of reproductive success, so their genes didn’t be passed along.
As a result, today’s men are drawn to physical characteristics associated with youth, health, and fertility.

 

 

 

Because we don’t develop a woman’s offspring within our bodies, a man’s physical characteristics aren’t as crucial in a woman’s innate attraction as they are in a woman’s.
So, what is it that women have evolved to be drawn to instinctively?
To make a long tale short, when it comes to female appeal, a man’s conduct is the most crucial component.

 

 

 

A somewhat unattractive person with the mental and physical power to defend her when she’s pregnant and the newborn while it’s susceptible to sabertooth tigers and famine has a much better chance of successful reproduction than a weak, wussy “beautiful lad.”

 

 

 

 

WHY DO WOMEN APPRECIATE JERKS?

Women can’t help but experience instinctual attraction to the classic bad lad or “jerk” for these evolutionary reasons.
Jerks radiate self-assurance, and their acts all subtly signal that they are the prize.
The sub-communication is that he has choices when he treats her like garbage.
If she departs, he’ll be pursued by ten other females. And this only serves to heighten her desire for him.

 

 

 

When he doesn’t give her what she wants, the subtext is that he’s intellectually capable of ignoring her nonsense and refusing to supplicate to her ridiculous demands. He doesn’t see the point in trying to impress her by caving in to her every whim. He’s presumably also capable of slaughtering those tasty huge buffalo, dealing with possibly hostile tribal members, and defending her from those sabertooth tigers. And all of this simply adds to her desire to him.

 

 

 

 

When he completely ignores her for days on end, not returning her calls or messages and basically vanishing from the face of the planet, the implication is that she isn’t good enough for him or that he has grown tired of her.
And this just serves to heighten her desire for him and motivates her to do all she can to satisfy him.

 

 

And so on.
There’s a reason why women’s erotica features bad boy bikers, tattooed assassins, and controlling billionaires rather than “good males.”
“Women regarded the high DT [Dark Triad—narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy] character as considerably more attractive,” according to a 2013 research, The Dark Triad personality: Attractiveness to women. (Carter and colleagues, 2013)

 

 

 

 

3. The Pre-Selection Advantage

Do you want to discover what makes women go wild for a guy?
You’re chasing him down, ripping down his door, and threatening to f*ck his brains out?
It works on males who are overweight.
It works on males who are unattractive.
It works on males who are cash-strapped.
It works on males who no one would expect women to be interested in in any manner.
Nonetheless, it works.
So, what exactly is it?

 

 

Preselection’s pussy-moistening magic is on display.
What is preselection, exactly? Simple. Do you know the man who enters into a pub with a lovely lady on each arm? That is the concept of preselection. Simply put, preselection is the process of allowing women to see that you are desirable to other beautiful women.
I realize that as a man, this might be difficult to comprehend. 

 

 

 

After all, we males prefer the innocent virgin over the sorority girl who has slept with every frat boy in college or the trashy cheerleader who has slept with every football team member. For women, though, it’s almost the polar opposite. Women have a stronger attraction to the man who has slept with every hottie in college than they do to a virgin.

 

 

This isn’t just an instance of confusing correlation with causation.
Women are more attracted to guys—in many of the experiments, the same guy—when he’s displayed alongside other beautiful women, according to research after study. 

 

 

Even directing a side-on photo of a woman’s face at a front-on picture of a guy’s face made women think he was more handsome, according to one research. Figure 3 shows a (poorly) shown illustration of how the research was carried out.

 

 

In the minds of women, just having a photo of a smiling woman pointed at an obviously unrelated image of a guy increases his appeal. Imagine the power preselection in the real world, not just in the psychological lab!

 

 

(It’s worth noting that associating with unattractive women has the reverse impact.) Preselection only works if there are a lot of attractive ladies interested in you. So don’t join the “Fat Acceptance” group; it won’t help you lose weight.) So, how can you harness the power of preselection to, well, unlock more women’s legs?
Simple. Here are a few options…

 

 

 

HOW TO UNLOCK HER LEGS WITH PRESELECTION DATE MORE WOMEN 

Women, strangely enough, are similar to money. It’s easier to obtain more when you have more. You may have observed this in your own life, where you get more attention and flirting approaches when you have a partner and less when you are single.
Upload photos to Facebook. Take photos with some attractive women and share them on Facebook.

 

 

 

Don’t tell anybody how much notch you have. If she asks how many women you’ve slept with, exaggerate if the number is low, or just indicate that it’s excessive. “How about today?” for example. There aren’t many…” “That’s classified information,” for example. I’d have to murder you if I told you.”

 

 

Have no need for anything. Always be ready, able, and eager to go out the door. You don’t have to put up with a woman’s nonsense. Simply appearing as though you had a lot of women (and so don’t have to put up with rubbish from any one of them) makes you more appealing in her eyes. Women are drawn to males who have alternatives (and so don’t have to put up with her nonsense), even if they won’t acknowledge it.

 

 

 

Don’t put too much money into her. This is strongly related to the feeling of being in need. Is a man who has a lot of women and is always being banged going to react to her texts right away, like all of her social media postings, send her lengthy text messages, check his phone often, and so on? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no Cut away any habits that reveal your lack of alternatives to cultivate that “I get laid” attitude.

 

 

And there’s more… So think beyond the box!
This is the single most efficient strategy to encourage women to chase after you (and free their legs for you). Preselection.

 

 

 

BE THE AWARD

Women typically think (usually unconsciously) that if you’re “too easy” for them, you don’t get bedded too often. This makes a lady believe she’s a treasure for you. She is the “catch,” as they say. This is something that women do not desire. Women are hypergamous and have an inbuilt need to be with males who are superior to them.

 

 

 

Women never want to be the center of attention. They’d rather have you as the reward.
And if you’re “too easy,” appear needy, or give off a “I don’t get laid often” feel, it’s evident that you’re less valued than she is, which isn’t a very appealing idea.
She wants to mate with a man she thinks is more valuable than she is. And you know what the best way to show her you’re that type of person—the kind of guy she wants to sleep with—is to show her you’re that kind of guy. Preselection.

 

 

 

When females believe that other girls are vying for your attention, you become 10X more appealing to them.
Make yourself the reward. Act as though you’ve won. Act as though you’re walking around with a huge pair of brass balls that go “KLANK!”

 

 

KEY IDEAS Girls are attracted to men who they believe are attracted to other girls. Use this to your advantage by dating more attractive women (rather than rushing into exclusivity), sharing images of yourself with attractive women on Facebook, and so on.
Create a mood that says, “I get laid.” Acting like a man with alternatives is one of the most critical aspects to leveraging the leg-unlocking power of preselection.

 

 

 

 

 

 

4. Set a goal for yourself.

He’s lost paper pursuing pussy, but he’s never lost pussy chasing paper, as 50 Cent puts it.
Women like guys who are ambitious.
And no, it’s not because ambitious guys make more money than women. Ambitious men, on the other hand, have a greater purpose, a “mission,” a large objective that they relentlessly pursue.

 

 

What exactly does it imply? Why do women find very ambitious guys irresistible?
There are various causes for this…

 

 

 

 

 

ZERO REQUIREMENTS

Ambitious guys do not place others on pedestals (even if they have a vagina). There isn’t any neediness.
Their Mission (yes, with a capital “M,” it’s that essential) is the only thing they place on a pedestal.
Your mission may be a company, as in the instance of a young Steve Jobs founding Apple; an art, as in the case of rapper 50 Cent; or as grand as constructing an empire, as in the case of Julius Caesar.

 

 

 

Whatever your Mission is, everything else begins to fall into place. Do you know all the strategies, tips, and techniques used by PUAs (pickup artists)?
Simple things like being confident, demonstrating that you’re a high-value person, not responding to messages instantly, not being accessible 24/7, not putting women on a pedestal and worshiping them, and so on?
All of this automatically comes into place when you have (and actively pursue) a Mission for which you have a burning passion.

 

 

 

Guys that aren’t on a mission? They are prone to obsessing over women, seeming needy, lacking confidence, constantly texting her, and generally elevating women. (All of which is designed to repel females.) Why? Because they don’t have anything else going on in their lives. They do not have a mission.

 

 

 

 

 

THE ENTHUSIASTIC BAD BOY

Ambitious guys resemble the bad boys whom women find so appealing in many ways. Furthermore, ambitious guys are appealing for the same reasons as women.
Ambitious guys and naughty lads have a lot in common…
Optimistic. Frequently arrogant to the point of bravado. He would never be described as timid, unsure, or insecure.

 

 

 

Explicit. He isn’t scared to say what he thinks. She’ll know if one of his females is being “overly obnoxious.” He doesn’t put up with a woman’s nonsense, and he doesn’t go on and on about it.
Decisive and powerful. He is, without a doubt, the relationship’s alpha. He’s the boss, therefore he takes command and steers the ship.

 

 

 

 There’s no crap like “No, what do you want to do?” He does what he wants, and she is welcome to accompany him as he goes about his busy existence. She isn’t the focal point of his existence; she is only an add-on. He never puts her on a pedestal or acts servile to her.

 

 

I’m undecided. He’s less receptive and more detached. He understands that he has alternatives when it comes to women, so you’ll never find him being excessively attentive. He would vanish for a few days, working on his grandiose Mission or doing “bad boy” things, and then just shrug when asked where he went. He just walks out the door if she begins a fight over it. 

 

 

 

Totally indifferent. He, not she, is the prize. He doesn’t have time for that kind of nonsense. There will be no praising her, supplicating her, or seeking to placate her.
Entitled, to be precise. You won’t discover the terms “feels inadequate,” “feels inferior,” “feels as if he’s not good enough,” “feels as if he’s not worthy,” etc. if you poll all the females he’s dated.
He knows he’s a jerk and never believes he’s unsuitable for a female.

 

 

 

Thrilling. He lives on the verge of death. There’s no white picket fence here, and no one is counting down the days until they can retire. He is looking for adventure rather than comfort and security. He isn’t dull in the least. Nobody can deny that he has a fascinating life.

 

 

 

Rebellious is a word that comes to me when I think of you. He expresses himself by saying and doing what he wants. He is completely unfettered and unafraid. Some could even describe it as egotistical. In any case, he’s a rebel who couldn’t care less what you or anybody else thinks of him. He is just interested in himself.

 

 

 

A figurehead. He is not only the leader of his own life, but he also has no qualms about leading others. He doesn’t ask his girlfriends what they want to do; instead, he does what he wants and gives them the honor of accompanying him on his rebellious, daring adventures. He revokes the honor if they become “too bothersome” or start giving him crap.
There is no neediness. He’s the boss, and he doesn’t think twice about taking command. You’d never describe him as uninspired or passive.

 

 

 

Masculine is a masculine word. He is a guy, and he makes no effort to disguise it.
He’s not embarrassed of his manhood or sexual appetites; in fact, he’s ecstatic about them! He emits a gruff charisma/energy/vibe and his body language is shamelessly macho. He’d laugh in your face if you asked him whether he was in touch with his feminine side.
It’s ominous.

 

 

 

 There’s no denying he’s not someone you’d want to cross. He’s obnoxious and gives off a threatening aura. He’s not your average overly pleasant, oblivious good man.
Unpredictable and mysterious. He’s an enigma. His daughters are always curious about what he’ll do next, and they adore him for it (even if they’ll never acknowledge it). His ladies never know all there is to know about this enigmatic guy in their lives, which only adds to their fascination.

 

 

 

 His conflicting traits pique women’s interest, and his enigmatic and unpredictable nature inspires them to create a dream that no reality could ever aspire to equal. He’ll never be in a sexless relationship since it’s dull and unpredictable.
Embarrassment. He’s provocative, and he ruffles her feathers by insulting and mocking her in a humorous manner. 

 

 

 

 

If one of his females asks him a silly question like, “Do I look fat in this?” he’ll tell her she looks like she’s gained 400 pounds and that she should take it off right now… along with her pants (*wink*). He’s not her soother or emotional tampon, trying to make her feel better by telling her how amazing she is.