Our terms work similarly to spells.
They have the ability to influence how we feel, perceive, and respond against us. As a result, when it comes to passion, our words have the power to entice or repel others.
And the smallest words you say to a man will either make him melt or send him fleeing.
If you’re curious how to make a man insane, the good news is that it’s simple once you know how.
What terms do you use to entice a man? Continue reading to learn 30 examples of phrases that make a man feel like a hero, as well as why they succeed.
Words that make him feel special
There is only one of you on a world with over seven and a half billion inhabitants. That means each of us is a one-of-a-kind person.
We also have little quirks and characteristics that set us apart. Isn’t it incredible?
People including motivational speaker and author Simon Sinek, who claimed in a viral video that one of the issues with Millennials is precisely this sort of shallow mentality, have attacked the concept of being a rare snowflake.
But, at the end of the day, we all want to be treated with respect, particularly by our romantic partners.
Ironically, despite spending so much of our days struggling to blend in, we still really want to be seen.
Those who “get us” are normally the ones with whom we feel most at ease in life.
We never feel like we’re blending in with the crowd. They will understand the characteristics that distinguish us and they see what makes us apart.
Let him know that you see certain special qualities in him that only a few people can recognize.
Emotional stimulus phrases that make him feel unique include:
“You are, without a doubt, the most ambitious guy I’ve ever dated.”
“I can tell you pay attention to people as they talk, and I like that about you.”
“It’s plain that you prioritize your family; I think that’s a rare quality these days.”
Each and every man desires to be valued.
They deserve to be seen as the man of the house and to believe that they are capable of leading. That isn’t meant in a sexist or old-fashioned way; rather, every man desires to feel dominant in his own life.
Making decisions is one way we can exercise our sense of authority. Men, like the rest of us, want to know that when they make a decision, it was the right one and that it would pay off.
You validate him by letting him know that you support or value his decisions (in large or small ways).
You’re basically telling him why he makes positive decisions.
That is, if you believe he has made the best decision, give him the benefit of the doubt.
That is, let him know when you believe he has made the right decision. It doesn’t have to be a life-altering decision; it may be anything as plain as the shirt he chose for a picnic.
Emotional stimulus words that would help him feel validated include the following:
“Taking this course instead of the other was such a smart decision; it saved us so much time.”
“I’m happy you said we go out instead of staying in tonight; it was a lot more fun.”
“That’s a fantastic idea; let’s do it.”
Observations on his sexual prowess
When it comes to sex, both men and women will face a lot of pressure.
We may be concerned about our appearance, how we’ll compare to others, or whether we’ll be able to impress our partner.
It’s understandable that being intimate with someone makes you feel insecure, so it’s no surprise that many people suffer from sexual performance anxiety.
There is also a traditional picture of male masculinity that men are obligated to uphold.
We just want to feel desirable and wanted, even though it is always socially expected for men to do the “chasing” when it comes to women. It’s just part of his biological desire to be virulent.
Most men don’t just try to get you into bed; they want to keep you there.
Any men want to believe that they can impress you physically as well as get you into bed. He needs to be told about his bedroom results.
That’s why, if you want to make him sound like a real guy, mentioning his sexual beauty is a surefire way to do so.
Emotional stimulus words to make him act like a sex god include:
“You have a way of turning me on.”
“Can you tell me how you do it? And I believe our sex is on another level.”
“The way you pick me up and toss me across the bedroom is super sexy.”
Expressions that describe how he makes you feel
Unless your man is a true narcissist, he needs to impress you in real life just as much as he does in the bedroom.
We all crave acceptance from those nearest to us, and we all need input on our efforts; otherwise, we’re likely to give up and move on.
It’s funny how quickly we can both criticize or tell a partner when they’ve done something that has irritated us. However, we aren’t quite as able to express all of the happy feelings they elicit in us.
That means you can tell him whether he makes you feel beautiful, safe, or loved.
Emotional stimulus words to make him feel like he pleases you include:
“You really manage to make me feel better and cheer me up.”
“You make me so happy that if I wake up next to you, I always smile.”
“You really making me laugh.”
Phrases that elicit a sense of urgency in him
Guys like to feel as though they are useful to you.
Of course, you can do anything by yourself if necessary, but being in a relationship requires cooperation and relying on one another for both logistical and emotional support.
Making a guy feel worthless is one of the easiest ways to emasculate him. It’s demeaning and would smear anyone’s self-esteem.
That may include things like criticizing because you believe he made a mistake or did not complete a mission in the manner in which you might have completed it.
For instance, if he cooked you a meal and you decided to concentrate on the mess he made in the kitchen instead of his culinary efforts.
Every man needs to know that he can support you anytime you need it.
Emotional stimulus words that can make him feel helpful to you include the following:
“Babe, will you please assist me with this?”
“May I solicit your opinion on a matter?”
“Do you have any ideas how to solve this because I can’t seem to figure it out?”
Phrases that make him feel loved and cared for
On Medium, there’s a recent article titled “the one thing men desire more than women.”
The male author describes how, while many people believe sex is what motivates most men, feeling cared for is really a more important motivator.
“Wanting sex all the time is part of the manly persona we put together to prove we’re manly. What we truly want is a safe haven where we can hide, rest, and be taken care of. To put it another way, we want the nurturing feeling that most of us didn’t get enough of as children. However, admitting these needs helps them feel like little boys rather than big solid men.”
Although there are apparent biological and cultural variations between men and women, we all have basic needs in common.
Any men may be unable to accept that they, too, want to be cared after because of toxic masculinity stereotypes. It’s important to note, though, that men deserve to be cherished and supported almost as much as women do.
Nurturing words reassure him that he will be vulnerable and let his guard down around you. They’re also effective terms to use when reminding a guy why he wants you.
Here are some examples of emotional trigger words that can help him feel loved:
“I’m going shopping; is there something you’d like me to get for you?”
“No matter what happens, I’ll be here with you.”
“I adore you.”
Phrases that demonstrate your admiration for him
What is one of the most insignificant and life-altering emotions?
Gratitude is the key.
The importance of appreciation in our lives has been studied extensively. It makes you happy, according to studies, and it has a long-lasting impact on the brain that enhances wellbeing, according to others.
It’s not shocking, then, that gratitude’s mystical effects can be felt in marriages as well.
When we consider positive qualities in our mate, it seems that we are more likely to notice more positive qualities in them. The more we express our gratitude, the more willing we are to negotiate and give for our other half.
Unsurprisingly, when we don’t feel valued in a friendship, we’re more likely to get a wandering mind.
There are several easy ways to express gratitude and acknowledge what he does for you, but telling him is one of the most important.
Here are some examples of emotional stimulus words that will make him feel valued:
“Thank you very much for doing that; I know you go above and above for me, and I want you to know how much I appreciate it.”
“I consider myself very fortunate to have you.”
“You are the best and you do too much for me.”
Phrases that pay tribute to him
When you were a child, do you recall doing anything that made your parents extremely proud? Perhaps you won an award or received an excellent score.
What effect did it have on you? I’m guessing it’s pretty good.
The reality is that we all want to be good and do well, even though we’ve grown up. Nothing makes one feel more proud than being complimented on a job well done by those that matter.
It’s why, when your manager recognizes what you’ve accomplished, you’ll almost certainly leave the office beaming.
Your guy is in the same boat. Of course, we don’t want to come off as patronizing if we put it on too thick.
He needs to be your hero in the end, but the more you make him feel like he is, the happier he will be. If you really want to get him to feel this way, make sure you praise him in front of other people.
Here are three examples of emotional stimulus words that can make him feel proud:
“You’re incredibly intelligent.”
“You’ve been putting in a lot of effort lately, and I’m very impressed.”
“Did you make it yourself?” It’s incredible.”
Phrases that enable him to be free
The prospect of “settling down” can be both thrilling and frightening.
Many of us want to meet the right person and form a strong bond with them so that we can share our lives together.
At the same time, we can feel as if it comes at the expense of our liberty. Good marriages, on the other hand, enrich rather than limit our lives.
Many guys find it very attractive when you demonstrate your independence. People who are self-sufficient should not have the need to have authority over others.
They aren’t clingy or needy. They’re content to give their partner control of their lives and they’re confident in themselves and their relationship.
One of the main turn-offs is desperation. That’s why if you can show him that you accept you won’t always be his first target, and that’s okay, he’ll see you as special.
Showing a guy you aren’t trying to “pin him down,” whether it’s hanging out with friends, having time alone, or allowing him to follow his own desires, can make him much more attracted to you.
3 examples of emotional stimulus words that can liberate him
“It’s fine; I have faith in you.”
“Don’t hang home on my account if you want to go out with your friends.”
“If you’re too busy, no problem; I’ll call a friend to see if she wants to hang out.”
Words that make him think
Men like the “chase” of a friendship, you’ve undoubtedly read. That’s because it’s in our nature to be wary of something that seems to come to us so quickly.
Guys like a balanced challenge over someone who is too eager or a complete pushover.
When you challenge him, he will obey you. If he believes you have high expectations, he would be pleased to know that he is deserving of your love.
It’s not about having fun, but about having self-respect.
That means you can show him that you are picky, but that he meets your criteria for a guy.
3 examples of emotional stimulus words that will threaten him:
“Being single makes me comfortable, but I don’t rush into relationships.”
“I don’t need to “play” hard to get because I am hard to get.”
“It takes a long time to win my trust,” says the narrator.
In conclusion, here are 30 phrases that arouse a man’s appetite.
Here’s a complete list of enthralling phrases to say to a man to get him to eat out of your hand:
You are, without a doubt, the most ambitious guy I’ve ever dated.
I can see you pay attention to people as they talk, and I like that about you.
It’s plain that you prioritize your family, which I believe is unique and unusual.
It was such a smart decision to take this path rather than the other because it saved us so much time.
I’m glad you said we go out tonight instead of staying in; it was a lot more interesting.
Let’s do it. That’s a fantastic concept.
You have a way of turning me on.
How do you go about doing it? And I believe our sex is on another stage.
The way you lift me up and throw me across the bedroom is very erotic.
You never seem to brighten my day and make me feel better.
You make me so happy that if I wake up next to you, I still smile.
When I’m with you, I still feel healthy.
Is it possible for you to assist me with this, babe?
I’d like to get your feedback on something.
Do you have any ideas how to solve this because I can’t seem to figure it out?
I’m going to the store; is there anything specific you want me to get for you?
Whatever happens, I’ll be there for you.
I’m in love with you.
Thank you for going out of your way for me; I know you go above and beyond for me, and I want you to know how much I appreciate it.
I consider myself very fortunate to have you.
You are the best and you do too much for me.
You’re a genius.
I’m so impressed by how hard you’ve been working lately.
Are you the one who made that? It’s incredible.
It’s fine; I have faith in you.
Don’t hang home on my account if you want to go out with your colleagues.
If you’re too busy, no problem; I’ll call a friend to see if she wants to hang out.
I’m very content to be alone, but I don’t rush into relationships.
I don’t need to “play” hard to get because I am hard to get.
It takes a long time for you to gain my confidence.