21 Sex Moves That Will Definitely Drive Him Crazy

When it comes to positions, men, who many women have been told would rather have sex than breathe oxygen, do have preferences. And, believe it or not, many people prefer quality to quantity. You still don’t trust us? These guys stepped forward to share their favorite sex movements, and the majority of them were a lot more gentle than you would think.

1.When you take things slowly.

“I like to take things slowly, with a lot of vocal communication on both sides. Kissing and petting in large quantities. Excessive sucking on various areas of the body, slow tongue motions over various parts of the body, and so on. Sucking usually follows the licking, although a few early sucks never harmed anybody.” — Michael F., a 25-year-old San Diego resident

2. When both of you are lying on your sides.

“I enjoy it best when we’re on our sides, facing one other, since it’s intimate while still allowing us to be forceful. We may gaze at each other while f*cking, but we also have control over the pace and intensity of my thrusting from this position. My partner claims that sideways sex hits her clit in the correct manner, and it also helps because she comes in a lot faster this way.” — Brooklyn, New York, resident James P., 35

3.When you say yes to number 69.

“69 may be fantastic — but only if you’re of similar height. When I’m down on her at the same time, my wife appears to be less self-conscious about receiving oral, so she lets free and reciprocates by deep throating and sucking harder at my penis. Overall, it’s a victory.” – 41-year-old Tom F.

“When you’re lying down on the ground “I enjoy it when my partner is submissive, therefore the move that always gets me is her laying flat on her stomach with me on top of her from behind. Because I can wrap my hands over her breasts or massage her clit, it seems more personal than doggie. I also like being able to wrap my arms over hers and keep her hands down. In this position, it always seems like my penis is as deep inside of her as possible.” — Stefan, Hawthorne, New Jersey (31 years old)

4. When you’re in the mood for some good old missionary

 “This is going to make me sound cheesy, but there’s nothing like good, old-fashioned missionary sex from time to time. I can slip my hands under my wife’s ass and feel as if I had her whole body in my hands, and I have full control over the pace and rhythm. When we’re having sex, I believe a lot of women misunderstand how much certain males want to kiss them and brush up against their breasts and bodies — and missionary is personal enough to enable that.” —Thomas K., a 33-year-old Pittsburgh resident.

5.When you sit on his face.

“My girlfriend is unrestrained in the bedroom, and one of the things that drives me mad is when she comes up to me on the sofa, lifts up her nightgown, and forces me to start licking her instead of asking for oral sex or dropping hints. She isn’t really ‘forcing’ me to do it since I like it, but you get the idea.” — Hudson Valley, NY resident Jeff J., 37

6. When you’re having sex in front of a mirror

 “My wife realized one night that if she climbed on top of me and rode me around our den sofa, we could both see her ass bouncing on me via the TV screen reflection behind her. It was scorching hot. It’s as though you’re viewing your own pornography. It was even better that she proposed it and that she wanted to turn around and see it.” — Greg P., Los Angeles, 38

7.When you tell him a tale.

“It doesn’t matter what position we’re in because all positions have advantages and disadvantages (mostly advantages! ), but I have to stop myself from having an orgasm in seconds when my girlfriend starts telling me about this fantasy she has where she comes home and finds her best friend giving me a blowjob and then joins in. She explains every aspect while looking me in the eyes, which just makes me want to push harder or do whatever it takes to get her to come. It took her a long time to include her buddy in the dream (she used to leave out the person’s name), but I reminded her that men are visual, and rather than being frightened, she went through with it. That makes her and the sex much more enticing.” — Raleigh, North Carolina resident Justin R., 29

8. When you’re doing a blowout.

“Aside from teeth and biting, there isn’t such a thing as a poor blow job. However, an incredibly good blow job entails a lady staring at me and attempting to converse with me while she’s doing it.” — Shane C., a 29-year-old Queens resident

9. When you pay special attention to his balls.

“I like it when ladies go out of their way to softly play with my balls when they’re going down on me or even while we’re having sex. It’s a delicate subject, and when handled well, it can really get me going.” — Max H., a 28-year-old New Jersey resident

10.When both of your legs are kept together.

“My favorite position is when my girlfriend is lying on her stomach on the bed, her legs crossed, and I approach her from behind. She feels very constricted, and I believe it is a wonderful fit for her. It’s also convenient because I can touch her clit and breasts from all sides.” — Denis L., a 31-year-old Toronto resident.

11. When you recall his particular turn-ons

 “I told a lady I’d been hooking up with that she drove me insane when she wore strappy heels. She caught up on the fact that it was something I was interested in right away. The second time we were in bed, she wrapped her legs around me in such a manner that the arches of her soles were pushed against my hips/butt, practically pulling me into her, and I could feel her toes clenching as she was near to climax… My body temperature has now risen 5 degrees as a result of thinking about it.”

12. When you’ve cleaned up your act — as a group.

“Morning sex in the shower is such a wonderful way to start the day — my wife will occasionally surprise me with a reach-around, or we’ll schedule time for the whole experience. It puts me in a better mood on days when I know I’ll have lengthy, tedious meetings, and it makes Mondays a little less painful!” — Benjamin B., a 34-year-old St. Louis resident

13. When you bite his ear in the middle of an orgasm

 “When she was ready to have an orgasm, she would bring my head close to her and speak in my ear, then bite or suck on my earlobe while it was occurring. It was sweltering outside.”

When you tell him what you enjoy, he’ll be surprised.
“Most men have ‘things,’ but nearly all of us have an insatiable need to please – if we know you’re into it, we’re into it, too. When I casually/sarcastically remarked to a lady that people glancing at their phones during conversation made me want to strangle them, she instantly took out her phone and said, ‘Promises, promises.'” — Chicago, Illinois resident Greg O., 34

14.When you’re a little tangled up.” 

When her wrists are cuffed or tied in front of her, I like to shove one arm over her head while the other grabs the small of her back. It allows us to have more skin contact, provides me more leverage, and allows us to both groan into one other’s ears.”