11 Signs His Kiss Meant Nothing.
Nothing feels more disappointing than finally getting the chance to kiss a man you’ve had a crush on for a long, only to receive the impression that he didn’t give a damn about the fact that you did.
However, before you leap to any conclusions while your emotions are still high, it is essential to take a step back and look at how he responded to your kiss. This will help you choose whether or not you should continue to pursue this relationship.
Not just in the moments immediately after, but also in the days that followed.
To assist you in gaining a better understanding of how he felt about your kiss, the following list of 15 signals will provide some insight:
15 Telltale Indications That the Kiss Did Not Mean Anything to Him
The passionate embrace was broken off by him.
I am aware that there is such a thing as a kiss that lasts too long, but if he cut it short then it is a clear clue that he wasn’t into it. I know that there is such a thing as a kiss that lasts too long.
It’s possible that he had a sudden epiphany that it was a mistake, that he wasn’t prepared for it, or maybe he simply didn’t feel anything, which is why it seemed off.
Only he will know the reason for certain, and if you question him, you should hope that he would tell you why he drew away from you.
Related: here’s what it signifies when a man kisses you just before he walks out the door.
After the kiss, he broke eye contact and walked away.
Perhaps he didn’t pull away before you did, but if the realization struck him after the kiss that he didn’t feel anything, he might have done so in order to avoid the unpleasantness that would have ensued had he done so before you did.
It is also a technique of ensuring that the two of you will not engage in a second round of the argument, which, to tell you the truth, is merely a strong indicator that it did not mean anything to him.
After the kiss, he avoided making eye contact with you.
Eye contact is an interesting phenomenon in the midst of very personal exchanges; while some men will establish strong eye contact, others may shy away from it.
When a man does not establish excellent eye contact, it might be difficult to discern precisely what that implies, but it is not a good indicator.
If a man doesn’t establish eye contact after your kiss, there is a strong probability that it didn’t mean anything to him, and he felt so horrible that he couldn’t even bring himself to look at you in the eyes because he was embarrassed.
He Begins to Talk About a Completely Unrelated Subject
If he breaks the quiet after the kiss with some inane subject, it is a method for him to attempt to move on quickly and not make a big deal out of the kiss. He may also be trying to avoid making a big deal out of the fact that he kissed you.
If he was into it, I’m sure he’d want to speak about what just occurred, kiss again, grin, or do any of the other things you’d expect him to do in the midst of the excitement of a beautiful moment.
A clue that he does not want to linger on what has just occurred is that he pulls away and changes the subject of the discussion.
During the Kiss, He Didn’t Hold You in His Arms.
It’s possible that a man won’t feel comfortable pulling away from a kiss, but negative body language is still there if he isn’t holding your hand and moving closer to you.
It’s possible that the kiss wasn’t the finest you’ve ever had, but if he was interested in you, he would have at least tried to keep you near.
You have every right to wonder whether a guy’s kiss meant anything to him if he didn’t even bother to hold you after he gave it to you.
Since the Event Took Place, He Has Not Made an Attempt to Discuss It Anymore.
If a man kisses you and then never brings up the fact that he did so again, you may be sure that he was not into it.
It may be difficult to bring up the subject of a kiss without creating an uncomfortable situation, but if it didn’t mean anything to him, he won’t feel the need to speak to you about it even if you bring it up.
You should follow your instincts on this one since you’ll be able to tell whether a man is timid and wants to speak about it but can’t or if he doesn’t want to talk about it at all.
Ever Since You Two Shared a Kiss, He’s Been Texting You Less Often.
If you were messaging a lot before you kissed, as most of us do, but aren’t texting very much after it occurred – at least on his side – then it didn’t mean as much to him as it did to you.
In point of fact, this is a sign that he regrets it or feels embarrassed about it in some manner and is attempting to separate himself from you in order to alleviate those feelings.
If you like him, it will be difficult for you to confront this reality, but you will have to come to terms with the fact that this is not the beginning of a meaningful relationship.
You Feel Like He’s Avoiding You
I say ‘feel’ because I don’t want you to leap to conclusions, but I’m sure you’ll know whether he’s avoiding you or not. The reason I say ‘feel’ is because I don’t want to make you jump to conclusions.
After kissing you, a man who is interested in you will want to hang out with you and take the relationship to the next level.
The fact that he is avoiding you is a clear indication that the kiss was meaningless and that he does not want to mislead you in any way.
It could hurt, but it’s better to know the truth sooner rather than later, and you should give him the space he needs. It’s better to know the truth sooner rather than later.
You’ve Asked Him About His Emotions Towards You, But He Hasn’t Responded Yet
It is appropriate to inquire of a man how he is feeling after experiencing his first kiss, whether the question is posed immediately after the event or even many days afterward.
It’s not a good indicator if he doesn’t want to answer your question or if the response he offers you is ambiguous.
It’s possible that he doesn’t know how he feels, but if you’ve known each other for a while, it’s more likely that he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by telling you that it didn’t mean anything to him. If you’ve known each other for a while, it’s more likely that he doesn’t want to tell you that it didn’t mean anything to him.
He admits to you that it was an oversight of his part
If a man tells you that kissing each other was a mistake, it’s hard to take, but it’s apparent that it didn’t mean much to him. This is a really huge indicator; if a guy tells you that kissing each other was a mistake, it’s hard to take, but it’s clear that it didn’t mean much
Even if it breaks your heart, sometimes things just have to work out this way.
On the positive side, it’s better to have tried kissing and found out that the magic wasn’t there than it is to have never tried at all. Better to have tried and failed than to have never tried at all.
Ever Since He Knew You, He’s Been Calling You His ‘Friend.’
The manner in which a man speaks about you and refers to you is a more subtle indicator that he does not want to take things further with you and that a kiss did not mean anything to him.
If he refers to you as his buddy or calls you titles like “mate” or “dude,” it is very obvious that he does not consider you as anything more than a friend and that the kiss was really an accident.
If you genuinely like the person, none of these indicators will make it any easier for you to move on, but at least you may be friends with him.
He has removed you from his social media followings.
This is such a contemporary method for determining how someone is feeling about you by reading between the lines, but it is also one of the most reliable methods available in these current times.
If a man quits following you on social media, or even worse, if he blocks you, it is an indication that he does not care about you very much and wants to put some space between the two of you.
If he stopped following you on social media after you kissed, despite the fact that it may have seemed like the two of you bonded and shared something meaningful in the moment, the reality is that this is not the case.
You Have Witnessed Him Being Attractive to Other Women
It’s true that deeds can speak far more clearly than words can, and those deeds don’t even necessarily have to be aimed at you.
If you observe the man you kissed flirting with other females, or even worse, if he’s talking about hooking up with someone else, then it’s obvious that the kiss didn’t mean anything to him. If he’s talking about hooking up with someone else, then it’s much worse.
It’s possible that it wasn’t the nicest kiss you’ve ever had, but if you were invested in the relationship and he’s already talking to other females in that manner, then it’s time for you to move on.
You learn that he has kissed another girl since he last kissed you and you are upset about it.
Going one step further than flirting with other females, if the man has kissed another girl after he kissed you, then it sounds like either it didn’t mean anything to him or he’s a player. If he hasn’t kissed another lady since he kissed you, then it sounds like he’s flirting with other girls.
If the two of you are not dating or involved in any meaningful relationship, then it does not necessarily mean that he is a horrible man if he kissed someone else.
If he has gone on to other females instead of getting in contact with you, this reveals a lot about how he felt about the fact that the two of you were kissing. It shows how strongly he felt about the situation.
He hasn’t said anything, but you can definitely get a sense of it from his body language.
This isn’t an indication that you can see, but it might be one of the most dependable methods of understanding whether a man took a kiss with you seriously or not.
You’ll probably simply know whether or not it meant as much to him as it did to you whenever you’re around him, and even when you’re not near him and you’re using social media or chatting to others, you’ll probably still know it.
When it comes to love, there is simply something that we can sense when we take a time to think about it. Some people refer to this as a woman’s intuition, while others call it a gut feeling.
Take into consideration as many of the signals as you are able to recognize from this list, and combine that information with how you feel about this person, both in your brain and in your emotions. That is the greatest advise I can give you.
I really hope that everything works out for you in the end. Good luck!